FOREPLAY (PLEASURING): THINGS THAT MEN LIKE

March 27th, 2009

Women are luckier than men in that the whole of their bodies are highly erotic, especially as they get aroused. A man’s erotic areas are fewer in number and his most erotic zones by far are his genitals. Many women can and do have orgasms by having their feet, ear lobes, ankles, anus and many other areas kissed or stimulated, but a man will usually become aroused and ejaculate only if his genitals are stimulated. This is not to say that men do not also enjoy having their bodies caressed and kissed — they do. Some men, for example, enjoy having their nipples sucked.

Women need to know just as much about how to please their partners, partly because it turns their men on, which is nice for them, but also because doing arousing things to their partner is highly arousing for the woman herself. A woman who lies back and lets it all happen in loveplay is missing half the fun! Men today expect women to play at least some part in love-play and the commonest complaint about wives in this context is that they are too passive. Unless the woman wants to be taken forcefully, there is no reason for this to continue. Sex is not something a man does to a woman; it is something they enjoy with each other, trying to make it pleasurable for each other every time. This by definition becomes teamwork, not a solo performance.

We think that every woman should learn to excite and arouse her partner just as he should learn to please her. This is especially true as the man gets older when he will need increasing amounts of stimulation to become aroused but his erection will last longer and be more satisfying for the woman. Once a man has an erection he is raring to go, so your activities should not be aimed at arousing him physically by bringing him to ejaculation too easily or you will be disappointed. Of course sometimes you will want him to climax quickly and so will not hold back his progress. What will turn him on most is seeing that you love him and want him.